It seems slightly odd that my first post is about conflict, but if what I’m learning is true, then it hits everywhere, so why not here? Contrary to what you might think, the only conflict I’m facing right now is the almost complete lack of conflict in my life. I’m slightly worried that something is wrong with me. This doesn’t bother me though–most people have always thought I’m a little off! According to the conflict style sheet, I am a Teddy Bear. Which means of course that I just imagine that I don’t have conflict. Unfortunately, the more that I claim this is wrong, the more I end up being labeled as “in denial.” This might ultimately actually lead to conflict–me claiming that my life really isn’t very conflictual, and that I’m NOT in denial, finally butting heads with those who insist that I can’t live without conflict. This isn’t to say that I’ve never dealt with conflict in my life–I have, and I don’t enjoy it–but I generally find that it isn’t worth being annoyed enough to turn something into a conflict. Either that or I just forget about it–maybe I just have a short memory. Is it possible to live a basically conflict-free life?
Note: conflict and and difficulty are very different things–I have had very difficult times in my life, but this doesn’t necessarily lead to conflict.
Sharon, there is a lovely wild growing tree called the rose of sharon which you are undoubtedly named after. Keep planting yr blessed bemus seeds in the hearts and lives of those you touch. And just one thing, Sharon; I know you remember to always be kind. But also remember to please be safe. You are a wonderful writer because what you write is true and from the heart. That’s what good writers do. Oh, and they also do what you are doing. They write. Be well, enjoy the journey and keep the vision. Carl
Comment by Carl Schinasi — September 6, 2006 @ 11:09 pm
To one “teddy bear” to another…I feel the same way so we can be in denial together! HAHA
Comment by Mary — September 10, 2006 @ 9:21 pm